In its current incarnation, NPC dating is accessible only to people with obscene amounts of money and energy. This leaves two titles on the list that by all means should not be that exclusive. Potential solutions: 1. Shift NPC dating to an individual/family based feature, as opposed to a contest among ALL players. This is the most ideal solution. 2. Make 'X's Lover" titles permanent. This eliminates the incentive to maintain the highest amity possible. 3. Cap amity on NPCs, as opposed to the counter rolling over an infinite number of times. 4. Limit gift giving to prioritize amity via conversation. While I realize this is fluff, Black Desert is a sandbox; even novelty features deserve to be addressed when the opportunity arises.