I am scratching my head over this for a while. The scenario usually goes like this: I am grinding, someone comes, starts griefing and wrotes "duel for spot". I either ignore or refuse duel and continue with grinding. Then he goes alt+c, or starts insulting me that I am trash, pu.s.s.y, etc, (put whaterever insults you want). So it usually ends with him pking me (but then i return and continue to grind) or after a while he goes off pissed and swearing that I refused duel. Why its like this? Is somewhere written that I must accept duels,? Well, of course when I want to grind and dont know how geared he is, a possible loss in duel might cause me to leave the spot, so when i have boosts on, I dont want to lose duels. But thats normal, no? (Another thing, a while ago happens to me that I inadvertently accepted such duel, but he was in party and while we were dueling, the other guy killed our camels. So thats also why I am hesitant to accept duels.) So when he wants the spot so badly, why is he not going to another spot or server? Or is it because he is afraid going red, and win the spot in duel is the safe and easy way? Hence when I refuse, he is pissed because he must go the "hard" way to win the spot, right? It happened so much times that I want to know how these guys are thinking when acting like that and how community thinks about this.